How to be engaging?

“But my child does not want to read!” Said no parent ever. Yea right!

If this resonates, sit tight. We’re going to spell out a recipe to get your child to follow instructions. It works on toddlers. It works every time.

Here are the wise words from a veteran kindergarden teacher. Use this recipe to take back control and watch them grow.

TL;DR

This is a recipe. Perform it each time. Always 1-on-1.

Calm space, fully engaged.
Lead with clarity.
Provide a fun reward.

Let’s break it down

Take a deep breath. Settle in. You are in control.

1. Connect; get in their space

Sit face-to-face
Get close
Establish eye contact
Establish physical contact

2. Dictate with tone and energy

Come in calm and confident
Give yourself room to grow

3. Lead with clarity

Tell them what’s going to happen
Give them something fun afterwards
Give direction

An example

Engage by entering their space.
Remember that kids don’t have a bubble like adults, so get really close.
Take a deep breath.
Make eye contact and touch them on the shoulder.
Tell: “We’re going to practice 5 letters, then we’re going to watch Bluey. Now we’re going to read.”
Give direction: “This letter says …”

Where 90% get it wrong

Avoid putting a question at the end “let’s read. Okay?”
Questions mean they have a choice.
Only give choice when it doesn’t matter. “Want to read here or there?”

Tell, don’t ask.

Reference material

For a more in depth explanation listen to this (YouTube) . I’m a fan of the channel and this post draws from the lessons shared in this video.